British mother had abortion 'because of visa rules' - more stories
I earned over £40,000 the year my husband came to the UK with me. But my job is off-shore and if I got pregnant I could not work. There's no crèche out at sea and taking a year off just wasn't an option.
Whatever other work I might have been able to get in my village, I still couldn't have earned enough to satisfy the new rules. So I panicked.
My doctor said: "This is disgusting. This could be the last time you could have children." But I didn't feel I had a choice. I came out of the doctors crying - a married woman shouldn't have to cry and be forced into a decision like that.
Sometimes the children don't want to speak with their father on Skype as they are so angry that I can't give them a date for his return.
We married 10 years ago but it was 8 December when we were last together. He has missed Christmas, birthdays and important milestones with his children.
It's caused major emotional strain and I suffered a miscarriage without him present. I was under a huge amount of stress at the time.
I work in human trafficking services and I'm called in when victims need support. Elie is a minister in the Baptist church. I work part-time to look after our four children - all under eight - and because Elie isn't here I have to rely on benefits to survive.
We've been married for nine years. Hazel is three and we're expecting another child in July. We want our children to experience both cultures - Hazel has a British passport. But if we wanted to return the new rules dictate that we can only do so if I become the breadwinner, depriving my young children of invaluable time with their mother.
Am I supposed to come to England without my family, for six months? Because that's what the rules say. My husband would be a single parent. It's crazy.
We find ourselves effectively exiled from our own country. We have significant savings, but not enough to make the £62,500 we need under the rules.
I am working as a translator in three languages but have always planned to take time to look after our baby. He has lived the first few months of his life in a children's home and I want to give him all the love and cuddles the world has forced him to miss out on.
Separating is not an option for us. We have a strong marriage and would never stay apart and risk our baby's stability and our wellbeing for the sake of these financial rules.